Researcher Max Sutherland writes:
"Laura (aka Laury, aka Laurie, aka Lucy) left Hugh
O'Brien
by 1861. No surprise,
as many wives moved out of the bush farms after some thirty or more years
of child bearing and hard winters in the frozen wilderness into nearby
towns and villages. Their husbands are then politely termed "widower"
by the census takers, when in fact the wives are "in town" alive
and sometimes well.
The 1861 census of Lanark Township (south of Darling
Township where Hugh and Laurie had lived). shows "Mrs. O’Brien",
as married, aged 44, living in the village of Middleville, Lanark Township
(6 miles away from the Darling homestead) with "Abigail O’Brien"
aged 8. They appear to be staying at the home of Mrs. A. G. Hall, perhaps
as boarders or maybe Mrs. O’Brien was working as a housekeeper. Hugh O’Brien
is listed as "a poor farmer" and "widower" by the
enumerator in Darling.
Laurie’s death certificate information: Province of
Ontario, Death Certificates 1870, #005419, Almonte, Lanark County
Lucy Ann O’Brian. Died 24 October 1870. Age 54 years 3
months. Cause of death: Cancer, after 8 months’ illness. Born: New York
State. Religion: Methodist. Informant: Dr. Noxon, Almonte."